COVID-19: Thinking of using the crisis as an opportunity to deny your other (ex) half contact with the kids?

By Peter Dodd

Partner

Well think again.

Before Michael Gove remedied the advice, those who had main care of the children thought it was not allowed to travel to and from the other parent’s home to drop off and/or pick up the kids so ‘time with’ or contact could occur.

Sir Andrew McFarlane, head of the family courts, has issued a stark warning to those who want to use this as an excuse to stop or curtail contact. The guidance is children should continue to visit parents they do not live with as long as both households are healthy. It is common sense and after all it is all about the kids and what is best for them. Or it should be. Emotions can run high when adults separate. When this happens one or both parties can put their own emotions first rather than putting the children first. The human ego is a very fragile one especially when there is hurt or upset. If you want objective advice speak to a professional. It’s our job to give you a balanced advice as to what you should or should not do. This is because ultimately we may be answerable to the court.

For further information, please contact Pete Dodd on 01279 712550 or email pd@nockolds.co.uk.